What is meant by "right person, wrong time"?
The concept of "right person, wrong time" refers to a relationship in which you feel a connection with someone who seems ideal for you, but extenuating circumstances pull you apart, negating the potential.
But this is not what I am going to write about. It's a tale of me seeing the right person but at the very wrong time. Before we start, make sure you have read "The Tale of 'Hi' and People around you."
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Recently, I was doing a Sunday street event on Marine Drive. which was a sudden show for me because of my elder brother. I was so frustrated at first but agreed because my elder brother is someone I respect so much. Without a doubt, my band Mumbai Drives rocks, and we did so on that particular day as well. I play guitar and the problem I face while playing guitar is that I can't see the girls standing in between the crowd because each time I do that, my string breaks. I think it was an exceptional day because, while playing, my eye sight went on one girl standing in a crowd. She had a black top and white sun glasses and she was so beautiful. On the other hand, my curse of breaking string was on my mind, so I tried my best to see her in between the small gaps. The event went well, and as usual, my elder brother did a dance that made every girl melt. Without a doubt, he is the best dancer. In my mind, it was like, "Here go all the girls behind him," and that's what usually happens, but our band's lead singer takes the remaining attention. Then comes the dancing part, where I was playing drums along with my brother, but in my mind I was finding that girl. It's too bad she wasn't there. My heart said, "She was sweet, but it wasn't the right time" and what could I've done in that moment? All I can do is cheer up the moment, and that's what I did. Time passed and we all wrapped up the drums, and boom, whom did I see standing under a tree? The same girl! (I am purposely not exposing the names.) And I was too sure she wasn't standing there for me. I still saw her because, why not? She was absolutely stunning.In my mind, I was sure she was standing there for our singer or for my brother, so I gave up the ideas and thoughts about her.
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Time passed, and I came home. After the show, all of us got followers on Instagram. Not just followers, but we do get texts from people appreciating our works, and I delete those requests because I don't really have a fondness for communicating with everyone and that pending notification disturbs me. So, deleting them is the best option that I can find. But on that day, I received 7 texts, and I deleted the first 3 requests as usual. While deleting the fourth one, I had a gut feeling that she was the same black top girl I saw, but getting her text was next to impossible. Talks happened, and that was the same girl I saw. I'm not sure what prompted her to text me, but she did, and we're getting along just fine.
Now comes the "right person, wrong time." I met her, and that meeting was so sudden and in a hurry. When I saw her, she was wearing a mask, and let me be honest, I just saw her eyes, and they were so pretty that I couldn't stop glancing into them. What happened, and how did I fare? On one of my old t-shirt and jeans that too luckyily or else I usually go on track to my college but I didn't trimmed my beard. First right person and wrong timing happened. Things went well though, and on the same day I was like, "I am trimming it today, but because of my laziness, I didn't." I was like, "Whenever I see her again, we'll plan it." I'll make sure to trim my beard beforehand.
just with an interval of one day. Guess what happened? We came to see each other again. Not just us, but her best friends were there too! and I was in my worst attire. This was the second time I felt like the right person but the wrong time for my laziness to show up. Nevermind; it was indeed a great time for me with them. But I just wanted to highlight how the same incident happened twice, and it was a fun incident I wanted to share as it's not a commercial one. So, what do we learn? Whenever you go to see a girl, trim your beard and wear the best clothes you can. 😂
