Few things left unsaid | Written by Yash Gadade

I typically come to the conclusion that some things are better left unsaid. Has the inclination at any point hit you? one that causes you to realise how tired you are. You have reached what you perceive to be rock bottom because life has mentally exhausted you.

I believe there is beauty in leaving some things unsaid because sometimes it does save a lot of drama, relationships, heartbreaking possibilities, and many more things to be considered, but it also comes with the possibility of "what if?" and a lot of grief for not saying what was in your heart. I remember watching Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness and watching a scene where Doctor Stephen watches his love of life, Christine, marry some other guy. In that scene, I could feel how much he had to say to her but he was powerless in that moment, even after having the time stone and its power. That is the grief I am referring to when a few things are left unsaid. Doctor Stephen couldn't do anything except watch her with someone else. Doctor Strange was a time wizard, but he had no power to change it; if he has no power, who are we? 

"The best surgeon and the best superhero. But you still didn't get the girl."

• What are your attempts?

You have repeatedly attempted to express your feelings, sentiments, and emotions, but to no avail; the message is ignored. You realise "it's too much" after the universe has triggered enough events to mess you up, but it's too late now. You're hurt, irritated, enraged, depressed, anxious, and paranoid, but you can't talk to anyone about it or explain it to them because you fear the same old outcome: more paranoia, more frustration, more fights, more losses, and even more grief. You're also hurt, irritated, enraged, depressed, anxious, and paranoid. You believe it is preferable to remain silent and endure. You don't even have the stamina to fight any more, and you wonder if the other people have ever truly comprehended you if you have to repeatedly express each and every feeling and emotion?

It's that feeling you get when you write something in your diary and then have to delete it all over again to think about it, express your feelings, and decide if it's worth it in front of people who don't care. Not every person merits a key to your heart, and you just understand that after you've paved the way for all. Additionally, when you have spoken your piece and no one hears it, you believe it would be better to keep it to yourself. When the going gets tough, the anxiety comes back, the insecurities start piling up, the grief gets too much, and you want to talk to someone, but you can't because you won't get anything out of it and you're too exhausted to handle another fight.

Things that are left unsaid, stays with us forever

As Rekha Bharadwaj put it, "Sab kuch kehkar hi sabko batana zaruri hai kya?" Is it kyun? When we express our dissatisfaction, all we need is for someone to understand our silence and recognise and acknowledge our pain. We are desperate to ask, "Will you be my someone?" However, there are some things that are better left unsaid.

But what if those things that are left unsaid would have been fulfilled if we gave them one more chance? I know something should be done, but I heard somewhere that life is about chances, and those chances are just another way of trying again. If the world is proving you wrong even after you give them a chance, it's not your fault that the other thing, person, or element is not working for you because things can really go wrong 99 percent of the time. The next time all of those question marks appear, reconsider and correct your error by giving yourself the opportunity to prove yourself right by doing that thing, asking someone out, or making a move yourself first. After that, even if you fail, that failure will be for you; it won't be done by the other person for you. So, give it a chance.